This week I attended an even called
“Developmentally Disabled”. Going into it, I thought that I was going to be
some boring lecture and I probably would hate it. This talk ended up being one
of my favorite talks that I have even been too. Instead of having someone
preach to us about people with developmental disabilities, Ark of Baltimore
brought eight or nine actually disabled people in to essentially hang out with
us. I took this talk personally
because I baby-sit developmentally disabled children. So when these people spoke I kept thinking that these kids
who I have become so close to, could be up here telling the same stories one
day.
This
really made me think about how other people perceive people with all types of
disabilities. Many people jump to conclusions
about people with disabilities and say they are stupid or “retarded”. Yet
jumping to conclusions only hurts that person or others. In John Ciardi’s poem
“Suburban,” the neighbor immediately jumps to a conclusion that the man’s dog
has gone to the bathroom on her lawn.
Meanwhile, his dog is “in Vermont with [his] son who had gone fishing”
(Ciadri 9). When people like the neighbor jump to a conclusion about someone or
something, they don’t get the whole story or get to know the whole person.
Meanwhile,
people don’t realize that the developmentally disabled are some of the nicest
and most caring people anyone could meet.
Thomas Lynch’s poem “Liberty” talks about men’s freedom and being able
to do what you want whenever and wherever. Developmentally disabled people have
somewhat of this freedom. They are almost always happy and do what they want.
They don’t take people’s hurtful comments or materialistic things to heart. During
the talk, a clip was shown of disabled people being asked if they could change
one thing about themselves, what would it be. Most answers consisted of either “Nothing, I like myself” or
“I guess I could be happier”.
Unlike
in Edgar Allen Poe’s “The Cask of Amontillado” where the man puts up a wall in
order to get revenge, many people in society put up a wall to keep their
feelings towards the developmentally disabled inward. This wall is put there so
that they don’t have to interact with people who are “different” from them.
I
really enjoyed this event and it really got me thinking about my life and how
maybe I should volunteer with Ark of Baltimore while I’m here.
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