Going into the iExamen
I did not expect to notice anything special or significant. As I went through
the day though, I realized how different my interactions with certain people
were compared to others. My interactions during the day varied from my
roommates, to other friends, to my professors.
The interaction I
had with my roommates was by far the most open and free. I was able to say
anything on my mind in the exact way that it came to me. The body language I
had with my roommates was very relaxed and comfortable. I never realized before
how comfortable I was with them until I did the iExamen. When we were apart
from each other we would still keep communicate with each other through text
messages. The majority of the conversations we had, both face to face and through
text, consisted of inside jokes. I realized that other people would not
understand what we were talking about because we speak using a completely
different “language”. From spending so much time with each other we have been
able to create our own “language” that only we understand completely.
The
way I communicated with other friends, that were not my roommates, was still
significantly different. My interaction with these people was still very
relaxed, but it was a little less comfortable than I was when I was with my
roommates. With these people, who I was not as close with, I did not have any
special jokes or language that I would use. Everything was common English. There
were some things that I felt I could not say around these people because they
would not understand where I was coming from and possibly take it a wrong way. The
strange thing with these people is that we may have seen each other earlier in
the day, but if we saw each other at a later point, than we wouldn’t say greet
each other in any way. This was such a strange occurrence, but in a way it was
still normal interaction between others and myself.
My
communication with my Professors was completely different than the two other
types of people I interacted with. This was much more formal and I made sure to
choose my words very wisely. When I was talking to my teachers it almost felt
like I wanted them to think I was smart and belonged in their class. I wanted
them to think I was worthy of being at this school. It was definitely something
that I was not a hundred percent comfortable doing, but I could see myself
becoming more comfortable over time.
Unplugging
from all electronic communication was something I enjoyed doing. It made all my
communication during that one hour period much more personal, because I had to
go find the person I wanted to talk to and stay with them until I was finished
talking or asking them something. It was also relaxing in a way because I wasn’t
worrying constantly about where my phone was or checking it every two seconds
to see if I had any new messages. I felt like I was much more aware and paid
more attention to what everyone around me had to say. My phone serves as such a
distraction from my surroundings, it was almost a relief to not have it for an
hour.
After
returning to technology-assisted communication I again felt as though I was a
little disconnected from everyone around me. My full attention wasn’t being
placed on what people were saying and instead I always had some bit of
attention turned towards my phone.
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