Last Saturday I woke up in
excitement knowing that was the day I was going to attend my favorite concert.
I chose to conduct my iExamen on this day because I thought it would be
interesting to see how I communicated with others and also to see how others
communicated with me. I also chose this day because I would be traveling to DC
with some friends and I wanted to see on a bigger scale how people communicated
outside of the Loyola community.
I woke up and proceeded with my
normal routine of reading and responding to text messages, then checking
Twitter, Facebook, and Instagram. At this point in my day the only form of
communication I had was via technology. On the three social media spheres I
picked up vast amounts of information from all of my friends from the common
tweet “why am I awake right now” to a Facebook status giving me an update on my
friends grandfather who is sick. I noticed that communication through
technology is instantaneous and factual, either through texting, Facebook, or
Twitter. It is hard to tell how people are really feeling because you cant see
their faces and you cant tell what they are expressing through body language,
you can only tell by their status’ or by the information they are telling you.
After my daily routine of checking
my social medias I got up, got dressed, and prepared for my long day ahead of
me. None of my roommates were awake at this point so I made myself breakfast
and then called my Mom and Dad. Talking to my parents on Saturday mornings are
my favorite. We have great conversation and I get updated on everything that is
happening at home. This Saturday phone call was especially important because my
mom was with my cousins who just had their second child and my mom was meeting
him for the first time. During that phone call I spoke to my aunt and uncle, my
cousins, and I spoke to Madeline, the “big sisstoor” of the baby. Everyone was
so excited to welcome Connor James into the family. After talking on the phone,
I had mixed feelings. I was so happy for my cousins but I was also sad that I
wasn’t able to be home at this exciting time.
At this point in my day I observed
that I still did not have any human communication because my roommates had
still been asleep, so I decided to take a walk and pick up my mail. Walking out
of my room I said hello to floor mates and held the elevator for some friends.
In the elevator we talked about our weekend plans and I expressed my excitement
for the concert I was going to. Walking to get my mail I communicated by waving
or smiling at the people I knew. I picked up my mail and walked to my dorm
where I read the letters my dad sent me. My dad writes me letters every weekday
and we communicate through the letters and post cards we send to each other.
This is my favorite way of communicating. I love opening the letters sitting
down and taking time to read them. I love trying to decipher my dad’s intricate
handwriting, and reflecting on the message he gives me in each letter. The
letters are special to be because they are keepsakes that I can hold onto for
the rest of my life.
At this point my roommates had
finally woken up, after coming out of their groggy, slumbering states, we
discussed our plans for getting to the concert, our outfits, and when we were
going to leave. Later in the afternoon I decided that my hour unplugged I would
spend cooking and having a nice meal with my roommates. I also asked my
roommates to do the same. We all turned off technology and sat down and had a
great chicken parmesan meal together. We all helped in making the meal and we
all sat down together to eat. It was so nice to be separated from technology.
It was a break because we could sit down and just have fun giggling and
laughing about the good times we already shared with each other. It was a great
experience and an eye opener, unplugging ourselves from technology. I want to
incorporate it into my everyday routine to get some rest and reflection time everyday.
After dinner my roommates and I put
on vibrant outfits and went to Penn to catch the Marc train to DC. We got weird
looks from people because we were all dressed in bright colors and crazy
patterns. It was funny to see the looks on people faces because we did look
ridiculous but we were having fun. When we arrived in DC we had to switch from
the Marc train to the Metro. Waiting for the Metro, we saw two boys dressed as
equally ridiculous as we were and we asked them if they were going to the same
Avicii concert as we were. It just so happens they were and we all went together.
We talked to them and found out they were Australian and they were studying law
at West Virginia University. It was so interesting to talk to them because we
found out about their culture and they asked us about American culture. So far
they were loving America but they also miss home a lot. We had an awesome time talking with them and
learning all about their experiences in America. It was fun to meet new people
and find out their stories.
The iExamen was such an overall
great experience for me because I got to observe all the ways in which I
communicate with others. Communication is one of the most important human
skills. In order for people to build relationships we must communicate.
Communication happens all around us and is continuous. One can communicate via
technology, letters, or face to face. Noticing and observing all the different
ways in which people communicate are so interesting. Looking at people’s
reactions, facial expressions, and even something as simple as the tone of
voice communicates different messages. I think communication is fascinating and
I am interested to see what the future holds for communication.
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